Rules for Writing and Life
Jane Resh Thomas |
I have never understood why people who can
least tolerate unkindness choose an occupation that entails rejection,
typically in written form, there on the page in black and white. I adopted rules forty years ago that helped
me to write with a minimal regard for the outcome of my writing. These rules have helped me survive the
exigencies that came my way:
Write what haunts you, lest you spend your life amidst drivel. Write what you care most
about, the beauty, the absurdity, and the sorrow of the world.
Set achievable goals. The thought of writing a
novel may be too daunting, so focus on today's work. Two manuscript pages is possible, even on a
bad day, so write two pages, not thinking at all about their quality. If you're
rolling after five hundred words, and if you're enjoying the work, write more,
but you're off the hook for today. Even if you write more than today's quota,
though, tomorrow you owe yourself a minimum of another two pages.
Complete a draft. When you have written a
whole draft, then you can smile and say that now you have something you can
work on. You don't know what you're doing, while you're doing it. None of us does.
We learn what the story wants to be by writing it. Revision is not the mere
installation of a copy editor's corrections but a new vision of the work. You
could tinker with the first chapter for the rest of your life while it still
amounts to nothing, so finish a draft, and then go back to the beginning with
new insight.
Be kind to yourself. The muse does not like
abuse. Put down the horsewhip. Treat
yourself with the kindness you give to your writer friends. You hear yourself
dish out the criticism: “Who are you
kidding?” you say. “You're a fraud. You don't know how to write a
novel.” Don't lie to yourself, but pose the observation in a more optimistic
way: “I don't know how to write a novel, but I'm learning how by writing
one.” (Noticing the grammatical error in
the first sentence of the criticism, remind yourself that nobody's
perfect. Then recast the sentence to
avoid both the error and the clumsy whom.)
Do your work. You can't control how others react to your
writing. You can't control the response
of editors and reviewers. You can't even
control the quality of your work, apart from doing your best. The only thing you can control is whether you
do your work. Study your craft, master
grammar and punctuation, revise until the story hangs together and the writing
sings. Your work involves discipline, a
daily routine that has readied your mind when you sit down at your desk.
Another part of your work is reading what others have written, in all forms. If you immerse yourself in others' writing,
you will absorb language and method naturally, as a sponge absorbs water. As the language becomes your very bone and
sinew, you will also grow in compassion. If you do your work, something good
will come of it.
These rules have kept me going as a writer. They are adaptable, as well, to life.
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Brilliant, Jane. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteSo good to hear your voice this morning, Jane! Thank you for your wisdom.
ReplyDeleteI saw Bend mentioned on the Internet a couple of weeks ago and thought of you and your Audubon book. I still want to see that book on the library shelf. Nice to hear from you.
DeleteWise and honest, as always, Jane. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Jane, as always, for your wisdom. And now--I'm opening my draft to write my own two pages.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the post, Jane. It reminded me of something I read in the acknowledgements at the back of "Grasshopper Jungle" by Andrew Smith. He decided to get out of the "business aspect" of writing and only write for himself. "I never felt so free as when I wrote things that I believed nobody would ever see." For my initial draft, I am giving myself permission to write things nobody will see.
ReplyDeleteAn excellent set of rules to write and live by!
ReplyDeleteThanks Jane. We need to be reminded regularly of these rules.
ReplyDeleteWait… what? Put down the horsewhip? How does that work with setting realistic goals? Right, right. I don't know how to, but am learning… Right.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Jane, especially for the reminder to be kind to ourselves, something that shouldn't be that hard to do, but often is. Every writer should live by these rules.
ReplyDeleteI've missed you, Jane. I'm so glad you shared a bit of yourself with us today. What a gift you are to us all!
ReplyDeleteI have read this so many times over the past week. "Write what haunts you." Now that amorphous feeling I carry with me always has a mantra to go with it. What perfect advice.
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